It's heartbreaking to watch your child struggle in school — especially when you're not sure what kind of help they truly need. If your child is falling behind in reading, math, or other core subjects, you may be wondering:
Do they need a tutor, or do they need an IEP?

Let’s break it down in a simple way so you can make the best decision for your child.

 What’s the Difference Between a Tutor and an IEP?

A Tutor is typically a private educator who helps your child understand a subject better, reinforce skills, and build confidence. Tutors are often hired by parents and work one-on-one with a student outside of school hours.

An IEP (Individualized Education Program) is a legal plan created by a school team to support a child who qualifies for special education services. It includes goals, accommodations, and services that are provided during the school day — and it’s protected by law.

       Signs Your Child May Need a Tutor

  • They understand the concept when it’s explained one-on-one.

  • They're generally doing okay in most subjects but struggling in one area.

  • Homework is frustrating, but they’re still making some progress.

  • They lack confidence or need help staying on track.

  • Their teacher suggests extra practice but hasn’t mentioned a learning disability.

✅ A tutor can provide targeted academic help and build confidence.

      Signs Your Child May Need an IEP

  • They’ve been struggling consistently across multiple subjects.

  • Their academic challenges have been ongoing despite support at home.

  • They show signs of a learning difference (e.g., dyslexia, ADHD, speech delays).

  • They need accommodations (like extra time, sensory breaks, or assistive tech).

  • Their teacher or school recommends a special education evaluation.

✅ An IEP offers formal support, goals, and protections — all within the school system.

Can My Child Have Both?

Yes! In fact, many students with IEPs also benefit from private tutoring to reinforce skills, especially when school support isn’t enough.

      What Should I Do First?

  1. Talk to your child’s teacher. Ask if they’ve noticed any patterns or concerns.

  2. Track your child’s struggles. Keep notes on homework, test scores, and emotional reactions.

  3. Request an evaluation. If school struggles are persistent, you can request a special education evaluation in writing — even without a teacher's referral.

  4. Try tutoring early. If your child just needs extra reinforcement, a tutor can make a big difference before challenges grow.

The Bottom Line

Tutors help with how your child learns a subject.
IEPs help with why your child may be struggling to learn in the first place.

Every child deserves support that fits their needs — and you don’t have to figure it out alone. You're doing the right thing by asking questions and exploring options!

If you are considering hiring a tutor for your child, click the contact button for a FREE 15 minute phone session. :)